SharkURPRISE Attack!!
I was watching Bigg Boss’ on of the Season 7 episodes, and I heard
something which sounded absurd at the first instant however ‘sank- in’ in
minutes that followed- ‘When someone is
feeling low or is down & out, do not, means do not sympathize or empathize
with him else he will feel more down & out’. That someone will feel
weaker with time if people do not keep the consoling pattern in check.
I have been in a similar situation- the side and the other side and
have done exactly the opposite of what I am sharing here. Why does it happen
that most of the things we do appear to be right until we stumble upon a conflicting
theory and all of sudden we become followers of it too.
I end it by just adding, “The surprise element is the sole basis of
everything around us- behavior, thinking, speaking and all other human traits.”
As long as you can surprise people by doing whatever you are doing, it does not
really matter if you sympathize or empathize………………………………….
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